Well, it certainly has been a while. Lots of stuff has happened since my last post...my birthday, Thanksgiving, Girl's Weekend in NC, and my current trip in Virginia. Rather than going through the details of each of those events, I will just sum it up by saying this past month has been very very fun!
Now...on to the post.
Relationships
I think the best part of life is the relationships we make with people: relationships between friends, child and parent, husband and wife, dentist and "victim"(... I kid, I kid hahaha. Dentists arent that bad). And those relationships that make you happy are the best blessings. I am lucky to have so many good ones with my family and friends, but I have also had the unfortunate luck to have been in bad relationships. Bad ex-roommates, boyfriends, and "friends," even best friends.
People grow up and change, and we learn what irks us the most. Sometimes, I am the problem, and sometimes it's the other person...and sometimes, it's even both of us. We all make mistakes, of course, but some mistakes are just too big to ignore. Those are the deal-breakers.
In my experience, most of my bad relationships erupted because of lying and deception. I had hoped that after years and years of experience with some of these people I would stop being naive...but guess what folks, I haven't. I trust people I shouldn't, and it crashes and burns up right in my face. Blah...why does this keep happening? Am I just horrible at picking my friends?
You know the term "Gay-dar?" Well I'm making a new one called Douche-dar, and mine needs a tune up. If only there were douche-dar mechanics, then I could get mine fixed and avoid all of the douchy people! Ah, what a wish, eh? ( Look! I'm Canadian now!)
Don't get me wrong...I'm not saying I don't have my own faults because everybody has faults; that's what makes us human. So maybe that's why we let douchy people into our lives. Our douche-dar doesn't work properly because we all have at least a tiny bit of douche in us lol. That sounds funny, but maybe it's true.
I don't know. I'm just making stuff up. I probably sound like a huge tool, but honestly, I don't care either. I am happy regardless of who is not in my life anymore, and I can make up whatever I want! I just hope that in the future, I will have the foresight to see a douche when it's right in front of me.
So, with that, I am signing off.
<3
Me
No comments:
Post a Comment